Learning to open up is not easy but you should consider it if you want to go fast. I have learnt to stop romanticizing suffering silently and quietly. If you grew up as I did in a fairly conservative home with I-no-like-wahala parents, there’s every chance you’d grow up to…

Just in case I wasn’t clear. It just occurred to me now how I have never bothered to tell my friends to dress a type of way when they are visiting me at my parents and this is saying a lot because of how I was raised. Growing up with…

The story of a broken engagement and the woman who wore trousers to her inlaws’. How we grow up to expect total subservience from the women in our lives regardless of their position is simply befuddling. …

Take yourself seriously. If there’s anything I have for young people who will read this, it is: In 2022, take yourself seriously or more seriously. Confidence starts from within. The moment you realize you are the shit, it spills over to your exterior. You don’t need to grow abs or…

Thank you for breaking the bias… I have so much to say about today’s International Women’s day but first, I want to appreciate women who have refused to stop talking. If past and recent social media trends are anything to go by, it is the women making their voices heard…

A Letter To Anyone Up & Coming… Young people are under severe pressure these days. No thanks to social media that helps us celebrate our wins and attract like-minds, there is absolutely no better time to develop strong mental and emotional range— the courage to admit your shortcomings and ‘their…

A funny but true story. Lagosians will relate. Last week, while I stood at Orile bus stop waiting for my bus and my eyes wandered to a woman beside me. She was seated at the curb of the road on a small chair with a table filled with ‘Agbalumo’ in…